Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. I have had several people tell me that now that they know our family all preconceived notions of the "doctor's wife" and the lifestyle of a doctor have completely changed. Their job is HARD. I was lucky with my TBM. He's been in the medical field for over 16yrs and I didn't have a problem when we were dating 6yrs ago but since he proposed 2yrs ago I've been feeling very unsecured. And you are right about people telling you that you are lucky that you married a doctor and should not complain. Interesting to read the concerns of so many doctor's wives. I have had to compromise more often than I would have liked. You need to repent and change. Yet others are really great human beings.
How convenient for him. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism. That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. Tough to say what will impact your girl most - but there's your best LDS. My 2 younger children are entering middle school soon. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. The church is very important to her.
I'm am dating a guy that is studying for his mcat he only has a couple weeks to go until he writes but I find myself getting mad and upset over little things. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. Why would you behave any different now. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. I just wanted to tell you that I am grateful for your words!. After med school, after residency, after setting up a practice. Being married to a doctor is no walk in the park. Sometimes I often think he is a wrong choice. You will join the church.
Chances are you can't though. You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive. I don't know if I want to be a single mother of four kids. Just a woman who envies the good life of being a medical doctor's wife.