Sadly, I'm not sure at this point. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on. Let her go right now then. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder. Mastering the alone time has started to become an art for me I can only imagine how you must feel after doing it for so many more years: I am so glad I found your blog today. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression.
I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. And as an outsider it will be obvious to you what's going on, but here's an awesome breakdown from a couple that flipped from "we go to church every week - we will write a Mormon blog" to resigning over the new policy banning children of gays all over the NY Times this month and something that is upsetting many staunch church members a few days ago. He's in his second year of residency and we're talking about me leaving everything to get engaged and move up with him. I can second this, as a lifelong utahn this is why I simply have a "no mormons" policy for dating. Due to their religious teachings, Mormons do not smoke, drink alcohol or caffeinated "hot drinks" coffee or tea or do drugs. Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. And whoever said doctors make lot ofmoney is full of b. You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself. When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me.
Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. No one understands our lifestyle or how difficult it can be, not even my best friend and or family members no matter how hard they try to. Can I add to this extremely old thread. Each time, I start to make friends and have to leave them and move. As a Christian one's values won't allow an affair on the lonely spouse' part either - but that probably won't bug you by the sounds of it. Why not rather find yourself a rich sugardaddy and leave the docs alone. You are brave and good people and seem to be raising wonderful children who will be lights for everyone with whom they come in contact. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. It's typical to not hear from him for weeks. Good luck to you.
He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with.
I would bet this is exactly what she is thinking about you, which is why she is willing to have a relationship with you aren't a Mormon. But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone.