My partner finishes her training in five years and she has expressed a strong desire to have children then. But she probably is more in love with the idea of you, than with you. It is fundamental that we focus foremost on developing ourselves as suitably strong men. I have given up my career to stay with the kids and lonely is most cetainly my new reality. As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. I love him more than life, He says the hours will get better after residency I really hope so. I'm worried this nightmare journey has destroyed my sense of self and confidence. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. I think one has to become somewhat vulnerable and broken to truly experience the best side of happy- and he will not, and can not allow that to happen. Did he ever buy me anything other than a coffee or a dinner.
I overheard her once saying, "being married to a doctor isn't what you think it is" and this is what I think she was referring to. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. I also expected that my spouse would be temple worthy and that I would get married in the temple, which was not the case. I am active in church, I take my kids regularly, and I have callings. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. We make time for each other every chance we get which sometimes is during the noon hour for lunch. Since her father is a bishop, I'm sure he'll want to have his daughter marry a temple worthy person. Good luck to you and your boyfriend. We will not enjoy that huge vacation if it has been a war zone every time you get home.
And for mormons, the goal is always a temple marriage and a marriage for the eternities. There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. Do you have any specific suggestions for discussion about content on LDS. Hi I am married to a doctor and I am alone most of the time. II do wish you luck. That would only encourage her to give up other standards that really are serious and to become like the typical Western degenerate. I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. Its was written in shorthand so its hard to read. The house is perfect, with nothing out of place.
Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband. Like many of you ladies I also feel like I'm getting the scraps of his time. I'm going to disagree with what some of the people have said.
Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it.